Desert Fetish Authority News

Second Anniversary Party

Two years ago, a group of geared-up guys got together and decided to create a new kind of fetish organization. Join the celebration of twenty four months of brotherhood, gear, education, play and pride at the DFA Second Anniversary Party!

It’s gonna be big, so we wanted to give you plenty of notice. Mark your calendar now for Saturday, February 8 from 9 pm-Midnight. We’ll be at The Barracks in Cathedral City. Expect an event just like our launch party, with kinky exhibitions, great music and tons of friendly, geared-up guys.

Watch this space for more info. It’s time to celebrate!

This Week's Book Club: Writing an Erotic Story

Everyone has a fantasy – from the author of 50 Shades of Grey to Shakespeare and to you. For some guys, gay or straight, it’s just a thought they’ve carried around for years, for some it’s a scene they’d like to bring to life, for some it’s something exciting they can imagine being done to them.

This month come to the DFA Book Club and bring your fantasy to life. There will be no holds barred, no subject too kinky. Alex Ironrod will show you the way to “LIVING YOUR FANTASY – Writing an Erotic Story”. Everyone gets to take part. Tell Alex your own fantasy and he’ll help you to coax it into vivid life with suggestions and ideas from other guys in the audience. You’ll be surprised with the result as a short story, a script, even an outline for a book may emerge.

It’ll be ‘fun for everyone’. All you need to bring to this month’s meeting is your fantasy – in one or two sentences and some thoughts to help other men in the audience. No prior reading is required this time. Nothing need be too outrageous.

You don’t have to be a regular member of the Book club, just the DFA. Come and enjoy something lively and different – and it’s not 'evening the dungeon.'

For January only the meeting will be on Saturday January 18 at 6.30 pm at Alex and Hank’s home in Cathedral Cove. As usual there will be coffee, beer and water and some ‘munchies’ too. Email Alex at for the address, or with any questions and to tell us you’ll be coming, fantasy in mind.

In Brotherhood

Kink Exploratorium: An Intimate Hypnosis Session

Dispel shyness and self consciousness to confidently pursue what you want.  Build the confidence to dominate, or the trust to submit.  Hypnosis is a way to emphasize and focus your motivations, instilling awareness of personal power and free will.

This Exploratorium will be limited to a group of about a half-dozen participants.  It's a time for each participant to experience the power of hypnosis just for them.  The focus will be enhancing dominance, submission, masculine power.

Disclaimer: This program is not presented as therapy. It may include intensely erotic imagination exercises. While the the intent is to enhance your personal fetish play, it is not a play event.

The  program will be held toward the end of February.  R.S.V.P. to Eric Trostler ( for details and location. He'll follow-up with a phone call to discuss your interests, to put together the most effective group.

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