Category Archive for: ‘Activities’


PS Pride Has Just Gotten Kinky!

For the first time ever, this year’s Palm Springs Pride Festival will feature Fetish in the Outfield, our very own Leather Realm! It’s an adult place (18+) where you can feel comfortable hanging out in your gear (no bare asses or cocks, please), check out exhibits from the world-famous Carter-Johnson Leather Library, see workshops and demos, and even dance! A …


BYOM Pool Party Follow-Up

Special thanks to Christian for coming up with the concept for, and to Ed and Ked for hosting, September’s Bring Your Own Meat Pool Party. Over fifty guys showed up for delightful company, great music, terrific food and even a little naughtiness! And it was such a simple thing to do! Christian suggested the idea, but didn’t have a venue. …

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Bring Your Own Meat Pool Party

The DFA is having a Pool Party! Put on your gear & get WET with US! Join us next Saturday, September 15 at the home of members Ed and Ked in Cathedral City. Please bring your own beverage (alcohol is OK), meat to BBQ and a towel! We’ll have some side dishes and a grill to cook your meat to …

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Two Big Labor Day Fetish Events

Labor Day is always a super-fun weekend in Palm Springs and this year we’ve got two great fetish events happening! Mr. Leather Indulgence Contest/Pool Party No one runs a Leather Contest quite like the Palm Springs Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence and this year’s Mr. Leather Indulgence Weekend is bigger than ever. On Friday night there’s a Meet and Greet at …

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Whips in the Park

Love to throw whips? Like to learn how? Just curious? Join fellow whip enthusiasts for a casual get-together. No experience necessary, we have whips you can use. Everyone welcome. Sunday afternoons in the southwest corner of Ruth Hardy Park, off of Via Miraleste between Tachevah and Tamarisk. Check our calendar for dates. With Drew Kramer and Peter Fiske. This event is …

GRROOVE Grand Opening

GRROOVE Grand Opening

DFA member Christian Calson has spent the summer creating a great new monthly underground dance club called GRROOVE and has invited all of us to join him on opening night. Though it’s not a fetish club, it welcomes everybody who wants to have a good time and enjoy underground dance music—and that includes Guys in Gear. There aren’t a lot …

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June Event Wrap Up

Pardon the delay in getting this update in place. It’s just that your webmaster was super occupied with a major work project last month! In any case, major kudos to Alex Ironrod, Hank Smith and Bruce Linton for organizing a stellar DFA event on June 16. For those of you who don’t remember, Alex opened his home (and his dungeon!) …


San Diego Road Trips!

It’s no secret that our brothers in FetishMenSanDiego have been incredibly supportive of DFA. In fact, wonderful San Diego men have participated in almost every activity that we’ve held since our founding! Now our SD friends have two great activities of their own coming up — the Belt Party/FMSD Second Anniversary and San Diego Pride — and they’ve invited us to join …

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Dungeon Tour and Erotic Reading

Join us Saturday night, June 16 for a very special DFA event at the home of renowned BDSM author Alex Ironrod. What’s Gonna Happen? At 6:30 pm the doors will open for a private tour of Alex’s new dungeon, complete with a sexy display of bound “prisoners” for your admiration. Afterwards, enjoy some social time on the terrace and grab …

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Avengers Update

Friday’s showtimes have been announced! Join us the the 9:40 showing of The Avengers (3D) at the Regal Cinemas in Palm Springs. We suggest showing up around 9:20. And why not wear some gear?

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